Kiasu Culture: When Winning Trumps Kindness
Kiasu Culture: When Winning Trumps Kindness
The term “kiasu” – Hokkien for “fear of losing” – might hail from across the causeway, but its spirit undeniably pulses through Malaysian society too. It manifests not just in ambitious drive, but in a creeping social corrosion where getting ahead, by any small margin, often eclipses simple kindness. We see it daily, this subtle shift where winning the trivial contest becomes paramount.
Observe the supermarket queue: the trolley angled aggressively, edging forward millimetres at a time, ensuring not a single soul dares cut in. Witness the car park predator, engine idling, ready to pounce the millisecond reverse lights glow, indifferent to the driver patiently waiting first. Or the buffet line warrior, heaping plates sky-high with the “best” pieces, leaving scraps for those behind – a tangible metaphor for the “me-first” scarcity mentality.
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